I think that would work Laze…
Here is how I see your wring?
Input 1 yellow to the boat ignition 1/port, input 1 blue wire to ground
Input 2 yellow to the boat ignition 2/ starboard, input 2 blue wire to ground
Output C1 red & Output C2 red tie together and attach to switched side of start battery.
Output NO1 black & Output NO2 black tie together and attach to DVSR red wire.
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I get having the two relays in one box. How about using two of these as they are waterproof relays.
Yes, using the rocker switch on the dash is a very simple way to turn the DVSR on and off, essentially the same as using an ignition hot to activate a relay. The other thing I do is I wait for the starter battery voltage to exceed the house battery voltage before I activate the rocker switch, I do that to keep the house battery from trying to flow it’s power into the start battery.
If you put a smart shunt (sorry can’t remember if you did that already) on your house battery you will be surprised how many amps flow into your LiFePO4 battery when it’s down 40-50% from your engines.